The key to making the switch from fighting against your husband to fighting porn with your husband is getting educated. We are not excusing his behavior, but understanding how your husband’s brain has been hijacked by his addiction, and your own brain by betrayal trauma, does help make sense of the craziness and help you form your plan of attack. In order to stand firm in this battle and fight effectively, it helps enormously to understand exactly what you are dealing with. We have many resources to get you up to speed fast.

Now that you have your plan, you need to find your people. Our Fight For Love Fellowship group enables you to test the water and experience a recovery community without having to commit to anything. We have over 1000 women currently in the group. Some are married, some engaged, some dating, and some in the process of getting divorced or are divorced.

We are confidential, positive, and highly supportive. This is the perfect place to ask questions anonymously.

The final, and most crucial step is finding yourself an experienced guide to help you navigate the turbulent and unfamiliar waters of early recovery. When choosing a qualified and experienced therapist/ coach/ group/ ministry there are many available options.

To find you the right help check out our recommended provider directory.