4. Is it my fault?

In this episode we correct the lie that you are responsible for your husband’s compulsive porn use. We talk about the impact of believing this lie and all the ways that we tried to fix the problem on our own. Then we dive into the scientific research and look at what is really going on in his brain. We explain why he looks at porn, why he can’t stop and also why he is unlikely to reach out for help without your intervention.